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02 January 2009 @ 02:46 pm
dried fish...woman?  

japanese people are surely...creative? but this is surely a fact...a phenomenon? after hikikomori and now himono onna. literally, himono onna means dried fish woman. but it's a term that's given to a woman which...ah, i'm gonna talk abt this later.

first, i knew abt this from Prita. she wrote about this in her blogger and think that she's a himono onna...pfff...and...she has now changed her blogger header with a dried fish picture. and even writes a welcoming message: "makasih sudah berkunjung ke blog ikan kering". just what theee...??

my message to Ta-chan: even if you think that you're himono onna, you really shouldnt do that. i feel so strange just to look at your blogger!

and...TBH, i feel that somehow i'm a himono onna too. but at least, i'm not a himono onna on a working days. i only become a himono onna on weekends and holiday. haha...

SO! what is himono onna? this blog describes the definition of himono onna.


"People use the term to describe female who has little activities but mostly spend time online. They pursue simple life styles and eliminate complex social networking activities. During holidays, Himono Onna choose to stay at home most of the time watching DVD, playing online games and surfing Internet. They are single and they do not like to apply make-up. They fully indulge themselves into the lazy comfortable life."

it is said that it's still acceptable if they take it for relieving their stress. but if they take it for everyday lifestyle then it is abnormal and need to be treated. the blog also describe more characteristics of himono onna. hmmm...let's see about it.

1. Indulge in animation, video, books, a person (such as singers and celebrities) , certain things such as hand-made, cooking, etc. Himono Onna once obsessed such indulgence is unable to extricate herself.
yes i do indulge in celebrities until the point that i think i might have gone crazy? but i think that i'm getting better to restrain myself now. when i was in the highschool, it was worse until all of my friends ignored me. hahah...

2. Rely on computer and Internet. Himono Onna starts do everything via Internet. Even without a reason or idea still she uses Internet. Himono Onna cannot be without computer or internet for too long because the situation can make she in a crazy state.
well, yah...i'm an internet addict for sure. but i only have time to be online on a computer on weekends or holiday. usually, i access the internet via my cellphone but now i'm getting tired of it because it's torturing my eyes and my fingers. TT_____TT

3. Instability rest time.
err...yeah. but that's because of my daily activities? working on tasks etc. but...if it comes to the holiday i'm surely becoming a "night creatures". i'll sleep at about 2 or 3 am. and yesterday was a bit worse cuz i sleep at about 4.30 am. i was finished at about 4 but then waiting for adzan Subuh anyway~

4. Rarely go out, like to stay at home rather then go out, too lazy to move. Himono Onna will take the time to consider whether to go to even it is an invitation from friend.
well, yeah. if there is nothing important then i'm really prefer staying at home sleeping, watching movies, or reading books (manga, novel, etc) :p.

5. Do not like to contact with strangers. Meeting new friends too frequently will make Himono Onna feels very uncomfortable. Without a deep understanding of each other's temperament and personality, she is not willing to be close friend with others.
yes i'm a bit lazy to meet new people. but trying to fix it by joining the organization at my campus. but still it's hard, i'm a bit shy when meeting new people and sometimes will get nervous until i dont know what to say. ^^;;

6. Possess two personalities. Himono Onna likes to cover up her inner thoughts.
haha...i'll hide my inner thoughts about something if it's needed. i'm not a to-the-point person. ^^;;

7. Possess addiction towards collection of one or more items.
hmmm...i dont have anything i like to collect. well, i collect some manga of course, some of them which i really like. it was worse one year ago when i used to buy lots of manga without considering the price. but because of the crisis now...TT_____TT
but i'm a careless person anyway. sometimes i'll just put it anywhere and they'll end up vanishing :p

8. Like to be single.
TBH, i dont like being single. i want to have bf...but...but...i dont know how to get one. hahahahah....XDDDDD

9. Like to write diary or blog and use photo to record her lives.
YES!!! i'm a blog addict esp to this LJ. and i love to write. but i dont like to put my photo here :p

10. Great tendency in love with virtual characteristic such as character of a comic book.
nyaaahhh~...definitely not me. i'm not a romantic person like the ones on a comic book or in dorama

11. Pursuit a sluggish and leisure life.
ahaha...i wish i could. sometimes i'll get stiff because of the holiday because i'll live lazily on holiday. but i dont like being too busy either. huhuhu...

12. Casually stand in the kitchen to eat.
hmm...i've never even eaten in the kitchen. ^^;;

13. Do not wear make-up and bra during holidays.
well, i never wear any make up. even going to campus. only use it on a formal event. but HEY!!! i always wear my bra!!! guh~...what is this? even they become this lazy to wear bra? >w<

14. They prefer reading comic at home compare to dating a guy
of course i prefer dating a guy. the problem is that i dont have any date...-____-;;

well, IMO i'm just a half-himono onna tho. what about you guys? hope we wont be becoming a himono onna xD. and for Prita, i still believe that you're not a himono onna. somehow...well...yah...just because.

aaahhhhh...holiday will end soon. huwaaa~...
ohya, for everyone who will have UAS, ganbatte nee~~!!!!
jya matta~

 
 
Mood: flirty
Song: Depapepe - Butterfly
 
 
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pritaxxxx[info]pritaxxxx on January 2nd, 2009 02:29 pm (UTC)
i'm glad since you concerned about my silly trouble. but, i still believe that i'm a dried fish-like girl/woman?. so many ashameful facts about me that i always keep in myself (hohoho... dont ever be curious about what i meant).

ya wis lah... jadi ikan kering ataupun kodok kering atapun kadal kering sebutannya, aku mau terus begini saja kecuali pada beberapa hal yang membuat orangtuaku terus2xan memarahiku...

about my strange blog layout.. hmmh.. i think it has an artistic view anyway....
Kiky: jae annyeong[info]pooh_kawaii on January 2nd, 2009 02:45 pm (UTC)
well, i've been curious since this noon about that habit you're doing when you're washing your clothes anyway. but it's ur right to keep ur secret...just whatever. i have my own opinion about you too. and i'll still believe that you're not a dried fish. you're a wet fish. hehe...
no no, i just think that you're more like a fanatics and get excited to high when your idols are spoken. that's all~

hmmm...that's good to be yourself. ^^

not, it doesnt have any artistic feel in it. not any!! x3
pritaxxxx[info]pritaxxxx on January 2nd, 2009 03:01 pm (UTC)
she's not my idol, and i think she's not kawaii at all by being a himono-onna. i really hate her character, her foolishness, her carelessness. but, i must be honest that i'm so close with her.

yup, it's good to be myself.

hey, apa ada yg salah dengan mata kamu atau mgkn sense of art kamu? XDDDDD
Kiky: pocari sweat[info]pooh_kawaii on January 2nd, 2009 03:17 pm (UTC)
huh? i'm not talking about that woman. i'm talking about those jhonny's guys and all the dorama you watch. you'll get too excited when it's spoken. that makes me think that you're only a fanatic, not a himono onna (just what's the different???)

aneh aja gitu. aku jd inget game fisherman bait yg sering aku mainin jaman masi kecil. aneh aja ngeliatnya, aga jijik juga sih. entah kenapa...-__-;;
pritaxxxx[info]pritaxxxx on January 2nd, 2009 03:26 pm (UTC)
nggak ada hubungannya sm johnny's >___<

entahlah, ada sesuatu yg lain di diriku dan itu sama sekali nggak ada hubungannya dg idols.

XDDDD... sebuah kebanggaan buatku bisa menimbulkan kesan jijik pada orang yg ngelihat itu... berati emang layoutna punya suatu kekuatan ya...
Kiky: twilight cover[info]pooh_kawaii on January 2nd, 2009 03:32 pm (UTC)
woah~...you're so weird to be happy with that status. ckckckck~...
so whatever you think...i'm not going to break it. but i'll still think that you're normal anyway~..syalalala *tutup kuping*

ah! aku gamau ke blog mu lagi deh klo gitu. >w< *pouts*
pritaxxxx[info]pritaxxxx on January 2nd, 2009 03:41 pm (UTC)
*nyalain speaker+ amplifier*

hwaduh... itu bukan happy, tapi rasanya seperti menemukan identitas (meskipun nggak gitu baik)... but, i thank you for seeing me as a normal...

ok, hahaha... lebih baik pegang omongan kamu karena aku berencana mengganti layoutku dgn gambar ikan kering muntahan kucing XDDDD
hayaku: miki[info]mint_hayaku on January 4th, 2009 08:39 am (UTC)
do not wear bra during holidays... ahahahahh...... pdhl justru cewe metro zaman skarang (well esp bule) ga pake bra krn mreka pikir itu sexy xD; it's a bad idea though..

well, even orang yg perfect pun kadang bisa ngalamin apa yg disebutin di ciri2 himono onna itu. even j-rocker (yg hobi bgt ngeblog via hp dan posting daily picture). tp bukan brarti lantas mreka jd himono onna..
I guess kita ga perlu menggubris label apa pun yg dibikin orang, tar mlh jd kaya gitu bneran.. ^^; yg pnting jalani hidup dgn penuh perjuangan n kesadaran..
Kiky: a9 roller coaster[info]pooh_kawaii on January 4th, 2009 10:53 am (UTC)
haha...iyayah? tp mgkn alasan pake bra nya beda kali. klo himono onna emg males gt pake bra, klo yg normal emg bakal mikir itu sexy. trus klo saya mikirnya...that's horrible!!!!

iyah, klo j-rocker g mgkn jd himono onna. soalnya istilahnya aja udh "onna". ahaha...*ditoyor*

mnrtku yg penting jd diri sendiri. tp jg jgn smp tutup mata n lupa diri jg c, hrs mikir apa yg dipikirkan org di skitar kita. jd inget jaman SMA...jaman2 saia dikira "aneh" dan dijauhi oleh teman2 saya.

TAPI! org di atas itu...dia malah ngerasa menemukan jati dirinya. i dont know why but she seems to be happy with that. soo~...i have nothing to say. ^^
hayaku: shou_rainbows[info]mint_hayaku on January 4th, 2009 01:04 pm (UTC)
yep, you got the point there, girl! smua yg dilakuin himono onna bisa jadi sama kaya yg dilakuin banyak orang trmasuk kita-kita... tp alasannya apa dulu... ;]
misalnya aja kita2 suka ngeblog tp klo tetep punya kehidupan di luar sana apa salahnya ya to? klo emg suka nulis mo gmn? abis akses inet jg udah gampang bener these days.
yg penting kita 100% sadar aja deh ttg apa yg kita lakuin; sadar negatif dan positifnya.

yg dulu kiky dikira aneh ma tmn2 itu gara2 too much indulged ma celebrity? but you're right, selama kita ngerti batas2nya dan situasi di sekitar yg mgkn lain sama pemikiran kita, it's gonna be ok to be ourselves. :)
aku rasa klopun skrg kita cenderung kaya himono onna, itu cm fase sementara smpe kita bisa kontrol diri 'n lbih dewasa utk ngeliat reality. :) itu poin penting bgt yg menjadikan kita beda dan bukan himono onna. ^^

well abt your friend; meski kliatan seneng tp kita ga pernah tau klo dlm hatinya mgkn gelisah. ^^; give her some time. she's still young and has got plenty of time to change. yg pnting dukung dia utk prcaya bahwa dia bukan himono onna dan suatu saat bakal siap utk jd org baru. ^^

just an opinion though.. :D
Kiky: tvxq[info]pooh_kawaii on January 4th, 2009 01:22 pm (UTC)
*nod nod* agree there.

yupz, dulu suka dibilang aneh gara2 ngedengerin lagu2 jepang gt. dan sampe bner2 dijauhin, nyakitin ati banget sih. tp saia mencoba merubah diri jg dan perlu agak cuek jg sm mereka. dan stlh kuliah malah lebih berkurang lg jdnya, entah krn jd lebih dewasa atw wkt utk hobi yg emg berkurang. hahaha...

iyasih, dia jg selalu bilang klo dia yg saia lihat bkn dia yg sbenernya atw apalah dia nyebutnya. dia pny kebiasaan yg tdk pernah dia tunjukkan di "dunia luar" gt. i just hope that she'll be okay and doesnt become more like a himono onna. ^^
 
 

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